Thursday mornings on the Karen and Ralphie morning show, Karen gives some personal advice. It’s ask Karen! From problems big and small, Karen gives her take on life, love, work and everything in between! If you’re interested in asking Karen a question, click here.

The Question

Dear Karen,

I was married for 9 years to a nice man…but he didn’t make that much money. I was always the one to have to make ends meet. We have since divorced and I have met a very nice man…but like my husband he doesn’t make that much money either. He talks about getting married but I have a fear I will end up in the same type of situation…which is feeling the pressure of always being the one to pay the bills.
I don’t want to end the relationship but I don’t want to end up where I was before.
What should I do?

Nancy in Sandwich

Karen’s Answer

Nancy,

In a way I think you answered your own question. You don’t want to be in a similar situation. So don’t! Continue to see him and maybe let him know you also want to start dating other people. I think in time you will figure out what is best for you.
Let me know how it all turns out!

Karen

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